And why fixing your neurochemistry might be the most important thing you do this year.
You’re not lazy. You’re just under-rewarded.
Let’s get one thing straight: motivation isn’t a mindset issue—it’s a neurochemical one. And for most people over 50, the system that regulates motivation, drive, focus, and follow-through—your dopamine system—is completely out of whack.
We’re living in a world that’s engineered for dopamine dysregulation. Short-form content, scrolling, processed food, porn, over-caffeination, under-recovery. Every one of these things spikes dopamine briefly, then leaves your baseline lower than it was before.
And a low dopamine baseline? That’s the physiological equivalent of walking uphill through wet cement.
This isn’t a moral failure. It’s a chemistry problem.
Here’s how dopamine works (and why you should care)
Dopamine isn’t just about pleasure. It’s about pursuit. It’s the neurochemical that fuels desire, ambition, and action. When dopamine signaling is optimal, you want to move, build, lift, chase, solve. When it’s broken, even brushing your teeth can feel like a chore.
And here’s the kicker: as you age, your dopamine system becomes less responsive. Fewer receptors. Less reward from the same stimulus. That’s why the things that used to fire you up now feel… flat.
But there’s good news: you can reset it. You can train your dopamine system the same way you train your muscles—through stimulus, recovery, and progressive adaptation.
Here’s how
1. Cut the junk hits. Eliminate or reduce ultra-processed dopamine sources—doomscrolling, sugar, porn, constant notifications. These fry your reward circuits.
2. Add friction. Delayed gratification increases baseline dopamine. Try cold exposure, fasting, or even just finishing hard tasks before checking your phone.
3. Train with intensity. Lifting heavy, sprinting, and pushing past mental resistance builds dopamine tone.
4. Earn your dopamine. Set hard goals. Make real progress. Every rep, every step forward resets the calibration of your brain.
5. Supplement smart. Consider L-Tyrosine, Mucuna Pruriens, magnesium threonate, and high-quality omega-3s—but don’t supplement your way out of bad habits.
Here’s the truth: you’re not burned out. You’re chemically flatlined.
Fix your dopamine system, and your energy, drive, and purpose will follow.
This isn’t motivation theory. It’s biology. And it’s fixable.
– Mark
Fitter Over Fifty